if ur slim then desi aunties keep telling u oh beta u r kamzohr u need to gain weight..wahts wrong with u?..but the men dont complain..in fact those same women’s husbands tell u to tell their wives tips on how to lose weight? wth is going on?
Soni... answer is in your question.......:) desi aunties (I am assuming lil moti ones) dont wanna work out so they want everyone around them to be lil moti too, so their hubby's can not see any slim girl so they (hubby's) wont be pestering em' (aunties) to work out....and get slim....
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Auntian tum say jaltee hain , unkil's flirt kartay hain.
hhaaa…
On a serious note... there is also an element of perception, desi unkils...:) and aunties... do not have the kind of communication that one should have as couples........(generally speaking)...
Like Aunties (generally speaking) will not have idea of being how to be desirable....and being moti is real turn off for many guys....... but not being educated in this department Aunties do not pay much attention on themselves.......
If Uncle is exposed to outside world more, chances are then he would make mental comparisons between his wife and the way he wants his wife to look like...but...again going to your education thread...if Auntie is not educated enough to understand how to take care of herself to keep looking gr8 in uncles eyes....they will remain in status quo.......which is........
Aunties advising soni27 to be lil moti taazi....bhari bharkam...and Uncles looking at soni27 and ..............wishing that their Aunties..I mean their wives get slim and smart as soni27......
^ haha..ur witty n funny..but u know those anuties seemed genuinely concerned..i almost started beleiving them..
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it hurts when every1 is telling you - tm itniu kamzoor ho gye ho 
hardi haar haar..ur sooooooo funny..
I also happen to get these kinda comments too..... tum kumzoor ho gaye ho....... usually I ask "kahan sey"....and if they say ankhon key neechay halkey parh gaye hain..".... ya...."skin buhut hi murjhai hoi lag rahi hai..."then I really take it seriously... but if they say anywhere else....I am happy for that...and relish that compliment by gulping down chocolates!
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Everyone is only so concerned for you b/c htey really love you and care for you and blah effing blah. They're just jealous. Just be happy with urslef, if u dont like being so thin/fat then lose/gain weight but if ur happy wtih urself, let them complain.
I also happen to get these kinda comments too..... tum kumzoor ho gaye ho....... usually I ask "kahan sey"....and if they say ankhon key neechay halkey parh gaye hain..".... ya...."skin buhut hi murjhai hoi lag rahi hai..."then I really take it seriously... but if they say anywhere else....I am happy for that...and relish that compliment by gulping down chocolates!
haha..u ask them kahan se?..yeah they talkin about my body not my face..my face is fresh..but seriosuly they act like its abnormal to b thin..adn that im 'being thin on purpose' even though i havent been exercising 4 a while now and i eat whatever i want!..
and haha..watch u dont gulp down too many chocolates..
Everyone is only so concerned for you b/c htey really love you and care for you and blah effing blah. They're just jealous. Just be happy with urslef, if u dont like being so thin/fat then lose/gain weight but if ur happy wtih urself, let them complain.
yeah thats true..i guess they have nothing else to talk about at functions..
life itself is funny
I know what you mean! In the US, my coworkers and friends always tell me I'm so lucky to have such a 'nice body' or whatever...but when I go to Pakistan, people look down at me for being thin. they say stuff like "hadion ka dancha" and "sookcho". I am not even that skinny, just normal. It makes me feel really awkward b/c I know when I will meet someone, they will make some joke or comment. Also aunties do stuff like hold my knee throughout the entire convo, or stroke my back the whole time--it freaks me out!! i guess it doesn't help that eastern clothes favor curvaceous people. so if a person is thin, they will look even thinner in shalwar kameez and aunties think we are more kamzor than we really are.
yeaaah..haha omg u 2!..i know shalwar kameez doesnt do much for my body shape!..especially since my chest isnt very well developed for reasons unknown 2 me..
i know d ont u hate that some aunties keep stroking us when they talk to us..quite ajeeb-o-gareeb..one even used to call me ‘lakri’..
and i alwayz get blamed when somethin doesnt fit me..instead of getting right size in jwellery or somethin theyr like well tum kuch kia pia karo na!..kathi tho khuch ho neh tum..like im to blame for this ‘setback’..
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its nice to know skinny girls suffer the same stupidity of aunties that fat girls do.
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^lol
worry no more, in my family the machine which used to break most often was weighing machine.
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yup.
I wish i was joking but Thats true.
that what our life cycle is, we are fat as kids. Become strong & muscular when we grow young.
Become fat when we grow old. hahahahaha