oH n Just because I said that something I’ve had guys say to me seems to be a stupid line , i’m man-bashing ??? If I didnt believe it was a line, I’d be taken advantage of, and then I’d be crying n whining here.. if you call em on their bullsh*t you’re a man hater, if you take their crap and complain later, ur still a man-hater.. tobah..
Quite a number of girls in PK do have the fk buddies, but it's all under cover, not spoken, not announced so no one knows. I knew a few who had fk buddies, until their parents found a nice rishta from US and then they came here as desi biwis :D Good Luck to those who go back home to find a desi biwi :D In America whoever has gf/bf, it's open to everyone. Am not saying that one shud have gf/bf, it's absolutely against Islam and we should not encourage it. Again, gals here don't hate Pakistan or Pakistanis. They just hate the hypocrisy, hypocrate people, double standards etc.
Myths and common misconceptions:
- Girls from back home are as slutty as, if not sluttier than ABCD girls
- All ABCDs are sluts.
Fact: On a percentage basis, ABCDs are sluttier than desi girls . If you want to play the number game, then you are more likely to find a good girl from back home than here. And no, not ALL ABCDs are sluts.
Sara, you are right, it’s a line they use. If the guy who asked u was a gora, tell him politely but briefly that this concept is not acceptable in our religion. Be brief, since it’s just a line they all use. He was just getting fresh with you.
If it was a desi who asked you this? Still he was getting fresh, tell him to go read Quran before he poses such a question to you! Walk away, He’s just trying to find opportunities to get fresh with you. Simple as that
^ Desis.. dont really talk to/get close to non desis (guys or grlZ) .. kehte hain “wow ur so beautiful/pretty/cute, hwo come ur still single?” .. buss jhoot/bakwaas karte hain
This may be off topic but I couldn't help myself: Danial Bhai, I find your signiture to be a little offensive. Islam doesn't need to rewrite any thing. Quran has been made for us to follow for all time and it needs NO modification. The ideas presented by your signiture are similar to Irshad Manji's for whom there has been a fatwa out.