True :k:
Like I always says everything that glitters is not gold.
Very religious people can turn out to be monsters too. Not everyone is capable of treating others fairly and giving them their rights. Many so called panch waqta namazis knows their own rights very well but they just don’t want to learn , understand and accept rights of others.
It all comes down to one thing UPBRINGING ! A guy earning alot does not necessarily mean that he will also spend it on his parents , wife & children. Whereas some guys who earn average & love their families keep their wife , children & parents very well.
What is is your roots will remain there for forever. Education can make a difference but it is only & only possible when there is a willingness to change yourself. Otherwise no matter how many degrees you earn if you choose remain jahil no one can change you.
Manners , ethics , perception towards life & relationships , the way one values relationships & family etc…all these can NOT be taught by any degree , you learn all those things from your parents & in your home and I very strongly believe that these are the things that you need to see when you are looking at a rishta. These are the things that will help you to respect & value each other , value your relationship and will save your marriage & make it last for life time… degrees won’t save your marriage.