how can we hate someone

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or something?

i seriously need advices how to hate someone or something :frowning:

ps. i do disagree with several POVz (point of views) but i dont conjecture someone or something and form an absolute perspective of them and stick to it.

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Re: how can we hate someone

Hate can be achieved via many factors... some of them are negative such as:

  • Jealousy
  • Fear
  • Grudge

and some are positive such as:

  • Lack of Justice or simply injustice.
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Re: how can we hate someone

Hate is essential.

In order to be Good, you need to hate Evil and those who are essentially evil, for eg. Satan. Satan is evil, and so are his followers from the Jinn and from Men. Hating them is essential.

Hatred for them is derived from the love for Good. The more you love something that is good, the more you'd hate Evil and the advocates of Evil.

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I agree with AQ, in my case it tends to be because of injustice.

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Re: how can we hate someone

I hate the hate.

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Re: how can we hate someone

Because of shaitan

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Same here :)

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i hate jeb u muge marte ho, dekah ketna easy he hate kerna :ASA:

Men: what would you do if this was the kitchen of your wife's dream?
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that means, no one or nothing made u suffer ever ................ lucky u

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Re: how can we hate someone

it is a ntaural thing dude :smokin:

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n why can't we hate someone? i know exactly who i hate, for wht reasons n how much n i'm proud of it.

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*Please, Avoid Rude Comments to fellow members -AQ*

see how easy it is for me to hate Sharaabi.. :)

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Re: how can we hate someone

AQ sadkay jayooN tere reply par aur tere pointers par.

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AQ lighten up for god's sake! Sharaabi and I are cool...
I call him a fat fob and he calls me an ugly tribal man...it's all good!

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who do u hate (tho i think i alreayd know) :woho:

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**:)..Interesting Sharaabi Bhai.........

So in essence we Love what is Good and hate what is Evil.............both were creation of Allah Subhanahu wa Taala............

What are we to do about "UGLY" which is also creation of Allah(SWT)..?

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Re: how can we hate someone

Peace All

We should hate the evil but not the person. We should care for innocents and care for the criminals. We care for innocents by locking up the criminals we care for the criminals by stopping them committing crimes, for those crimes earn them sin.

We should hate the sin but not the sinner.

By hating people we have made our minds up about them, it could be that Allah (SWT) may one day turn his or her heart.

Even Shaitan has been given respite a time away from Hell, until the Day of Judgement, he was given the respite when he asked Allah (SWT) for permission to lead men astray.

By voicing our hatred for Shaitan he bloats and gets arrogant. We can acknowledge that he is accursed but hating people does us no real good to our souls, we should seek protection from Allah (SWT) from such negativity.

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i think these things create hate in ppl(pretty much agree with AQ) , thsi is what iv seen:

1) jealousy..jealous ppl r always trying 2 put down the object of jealousy and thwart their plans and cause them pain and when the receiving party realizes this then they also start hating the other party. especially if they keep torturing them again and again.. ek ya do dafa azmana chaihye laiken baar baar nehi.
i would advise anybody that if u know that soemone or some party is jealous of u tehn u should just cut off all ties with them otherwise they will never stop causing u harm.

2) holding grudges.. some ppl r reallly snesitive n get offended really easy..aise log bohot jaldi beisaati mehssoos karte hain. bet hte problem is serious if they dont let it go. every1 gets annoyed or angry, but i dont think i can hold on 2 it 4 long, its uncessary and unhealthy. i think such ppl r ziddi and khatarnaak..and i think this type of behaviour comes 4rm being jaahil.