Pinkyy, stay firm.. Most parents tend to back down if you’re stubborn enough but it could take months or even a year or longer.. The main thing is they want to save face infront of family and the wider community so will usually go down the route that will cause the least embarrassment to themselves.. If you say you won’t accept it at any cost chances are they won’t risk you making a scene at the nikkah or a v.quick divorce if that’s what they really believe you might do..