How can she tell her daughter,that she is not her real daughter???

[NaTaLia]

@PSquared

**Reassure her constantly and make sure she is told with the help of a child psychologist. **

Other then that, kids shouldnt be told like this…as a surprise. Why did the birth mother tell her children about this in the first place? Is this something to say to a kid??? Of COURSE it would get out at some point between the children and create a fiasco like this. How irresponsible of people!

i was also thinking on the same terms,well updates are that she is not talking to anyone:(12 is not a mature age well my friend told me that it was decided among the families that THIS IS A SECRET and nobody will reveal it.the whole blame goes on the mother who told her other daughter the whole story.my friend is also very upset and she told me that the adoption took place on the term that NO ONE will ever mention the truth and they gave the baby cause they were fedup of girls.this was their 4th daughter.

aahhh people and their stupid decisions.i,myself is getting confuse .