How can she make sure he isn't a cheat..

[Mirch]

Re: How can she make sure he isn’t a cheat..

@diwana

Your friend and him, both seem nerds.

After couple of days meeting she went ahead and met him.

He falls in love with him.

She is so serious she is concerned about him using her and has no thought of being able to stop that. I mean why worry about him using her if she is not gonna meet him privately? Is there any chance of that happening?

Above all, where are her parents or elders in her family? Doesn’t she have other (better) ways to find a rishta?

This situation is perfect example of some girls who first go online, meet someone after couple of days of chatting and then get ‘scared’ about being ‘used’ by men. And when they get used by their own fault, they say they were trusting the guy.

It reminds me of a joke :
A guy asked an older looking person sitting beside him " What is the time , sir."
The old guy said I am not going to tell you what time it is
The young guy said why .
Old guy said because once I tell you time , you will ask me where did I buy this watch from I will tell you that I bought this from Switzerland . Then you will ask me why did I go to Switzerland , when I tell you I went there on vacation with my family . Then you will ask me how many kids I have when I will tell you two one boy and a girl. Then you will ask me how old are they when I will tell you boy is 15 and girl is 25 . Then you will ask me is your daughter married and I will tell you no , then you will ask me her hand in the marriage . But how can I marry my daughter to a guy who does not even own a wrist watch.

Now do not ask me how this joke is relevant to what you said and what op is asking. I leave it to you.
, If you do not find any relevance then just assume that I wanted to tell a lame joke on a lame situational question.