How can she make sure he isn't a cheat..

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Re: How can she make sure he isn’t a cheat..

@pinkyy

So, my best friend recently registered on shaadi.com,and there she met a guy living in the same city as of hers.After a couple of days of chatting with him,she met him in a mall for 10-15 mins,and after that meeting,he right away messaged her,saying he loves her & wants to marry her.So,after that,he told her he would like to marry after 6 months,and move to another country,but he hasn’t involved his parents yet because according to him,they are currently in Pakistan and would come back from there after 4 months,and so,then only his parents would come to her place with the proposal.Currently he wants her to make him meet her brother so that her brother would be aware of him that he wants to marry his sister.Moreover he keeps asking her to meet him frequently so that they both can get to know each other better,and that’s what making her scared.She thinks perhaps in the name of marriage,he is trying to ‘use’ her?
What do you people think? Should she give him a chance by being in touch with him or is he one of the fraud types who may disappear at the end?

Your friend and him, both seem nerds.

After couple of days meeting she went ahead and met him.

He falls in love with him.

She is so serious she is concerned about him using her and has no thought of being able to stop that. I mean why worry about him using her if she is not gonna meet him privately? Is there any chance of that happening?

Above all, where are her parents or elders in her family? Doesn’t she have other (better) ways to find a rishta?

This situation is perfect example of some girls who first go online, meet someone after couple of days of chatting and then get ‘scared’ about being ‘used’ by men. And when they get used by their own fault, they say they were trusting the guy.