We were close, but when she moved out she started spending more time with the people around her, who she lived with. They're all goray so I guess she just started doing what they do.
My mum wanted me to cut down contact with her because she didn't want me to get involved too much in her situation, especially with it being a court case etc etc as a mother she was just trying to look out for me. Regardless of this I still spent a lot of time with her, she fell ill a few times I spent time with her in hospital without telling my mum. So really going to speak to my mum will just result in her saying it's not your poblem, just back off.
But I feel as a muslim I have a responsibility towarrds her, to help her. But the problem is I can only be around her during the day, I'm home for no later than 7pm everyday, and obviously if she's going out clubbing thats done after that time. Her 'white' friends obviously wont stop her because for them this is the norm. She hasn't told me any of this directly, I guess she herself is ashamed of her actions but have found out through other friends, seen pictures etc. How do I bring it up with her without making her feel I'm invading her life?
Kurri I can understand your's and your moms concern both are right but you have to convince your mom that she has to involve to bring her back to the norms.
That girl need help morally, may be money wise, guidance. Ask your parents and other elders to involve. Tell ppl in mosque to send ladies to her who would try to bring her back.
Try to listen and ask about her pain. You ever heard the song "main to peeta hoon ghum bhulanay ko".
She desperately need love, hugs and lots of attention and guidence. It all muslims responsiblity to bring her back to normal.
Ask her or help her in finding place where muslims live not gorays. Share her pain.