Erm…this is an embarrasing topic but—
(1) how big is ‘normal’ --mine is just under 6 inches when hard and about 2 when soft. Is that normal or too small?
(2) Ladies, does the size of a guys willy matter to you?
This might seem like a trivial issue to you but believe me for guys it isn’t.
We worry about such things…
The reason I ask is I was reading an islamic sex guide which said:
size does matter… but if u have the tech. u sure can work it out… do u have the tech. 
so need help
size does matters! ;)
sybarite, size doesn't matter. Generally.
As a matter of fact, "too long" can hurt a woman pretty bad. When people say "size" they generally mean circumference. Normally, a bigger circumference is desirable for women who "require" it due to their own wideness, which also warries from woman to woman. But this can easily be compesated on men's part by stimulating techniques using fingers or tongue etc.
The orgasm in women mainly involves stimulation of clitoris, and stimulating a clitoris has got nothing to do with "size" as long as you know the techniques. To be a good lover involves a lot more than penetration. And if you are a good lover, size doesn't matter.
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The orgasm in women mainly involves stimulation of clitoris, and stimulating a clitoris has got nothing to do with "size" as long as you know the techniques. To be a good lover involves a lot more than penetration. And if you are a good lover, size doesn't matter.
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Stimulation of the clitoris is not the only way for a woman to acheive orgasm. There is something called the G-spot, which is in the upper inside of the vagina. A woman can just as easily acheive orgasm through penetration and stimulation of the G-spot.
G spost is more of a myth than reality. Some women have it, others don't.
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G spost is more of a myth than reality. Some women have it, others don't.
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The same can be said for the femal orgasm then.
No. Clitoris is the primary "organ" for that. Just like in men it's the "head" part of the penis for sexual stimulation and orgasm.
Sybarite, guys who lack length often try to feel better by the myth that long hurts a woman. If anything it is the girth that might cause some discomfort on the wall of the vagina. Although, it may be true for some under-weight women, most women generally prefer girth (width or motta-ness) and length both. There are ways to minimize the pain (if there is any) caused due to the length of the penis. A man does not have to penetrate all the way at once. You can slowly build up the entry by varying your back and forth movement. A woman's vagina is like an Allen Edmonds shoe. It tends to fit in whatever size it is offered.
Keep in mind, a decent length is crucial. You can always make up for the girth by a rotary movement of your hips as you enter.
Hope it helps you. It has certainly made my experiences very fullfilling.
Roman, head is not always the most sensitive part for a male. It can be the underside of the shaft or just the tip or any other spot on the body.
funguy,
The viginal wall at the end of the tunnel (if you may accept the metaphor) is at shorter or longer distance for woman to woman. A touch to the wall is stimulating and pleasant. A thurst however can be hurtful specially given the repeated act. That is why "too long" is hurtful. There is a limit to how long you can penetrate. A man with, say, 10 inch penis has great chances to hurt a woman if he's not careful.
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Roman, head is not always the most sensitive part for a male. It can be the underside of the shaft or just the tip or any other spot on the body.
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funguy,
The "It can be" scenario can apply to anything. We are talking about general human anatomy. Try masturbating by rubbing "any other spot" on the body sometime and then post the results so that we can be sure.
Heck, some people can even come only by thinking about sex, but then of course, that's not really a "normal, healthy" way, or is it?
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Heck, some people can even come only by thinking about sex, but then of course, that's not really a "normal, healthy" way, or is it?
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I would love to elaborate on this point but the topic is on length of penis. Please open another thread and I will be more than glad to share my experiences.
orgasms and G-spots are very real indeed 
moona, what would you know about G-spot?
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sybrite there are plenty of enhancements methods out there for the pygmie folk..give em a shot. BTW in your islamic guide to sex why does everything revolve around "hand" "finger" and "penis" ?
"Various Lengths of the Virile Member
The virile member, to please women, must have at most a length of the breadth of twelve fingers, or three handbreadths, and at least six fingers, or a hand and a half breadth.
There are men with members of twelve fingers, or three hand-breadths; others of ten fingers, or two and a half hands. And others measure eight fingers, or two hands. A man whose member is of less dimensions cannot please women.
Source (Perfumed Garden of al Nafzawi)
^ Are u kidding me?
6 inches is normal according to scientific circles.
Size doesn't matter.
Please think a little ...do you really think its ISLAMICALLY correct that a "man whose mmber is of less dimensions cannot please a woman"???? Give me a break. You're posting up the claims of some mullah who thinks he's a sex guru. Maybe some of what he says in this book "Perfumed Garden" is scientifically correct, but it looks like a lot of it is just nonsense. This doesn't mean that Islamically, he's correct.
Islam has always gone hand in hand with science, and science is God's language. If its not scientifically correct, its not Islamically correct either.
First of all "how big is yours" is a totally irrelevant question... aap nay doosroN ka achaar daalna hai?
The second question "does size matter?" is a better one, but for most intents and purposes may turn out to be quite useless bcz not everyone thinks the same. Mr. Sybarite may want to do a general survey to make sure he is adequately equipped for a happy and prosprous future life; and may turn out his spouse is totally indifferent to this whole thing.
I am rather curious of those who cared to response, how many are actually sexually active to have known from experience and how many are merely pouring out their fantasies or text book knowledge? Not that I want to know whether you are sexually active or not, but just that what you wrote is waisay hi chor rahay hein or does it have some practical basis?
Pyari C ....
you seem very well informed! ;)
seriously though the reason I asked was not because I am worried about the size of mine (had no complaints thank you!) but because I too found the quote from al Nafzawi a bit worrying! Then again this book is from the 17th century I think in Tunis, so I can see how things have changed.
Having said that most women still prefer guys with bigger ones all things being equal--so maybe Nafzawi sahib had a point?