How belief get Weak

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Re: How belief get Weak

@lethal_kamikaze

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First of all a person afraid to do wrong doing b’coz of consequences but when that person don’t face any, do more or get involve in it further. I’m not talking about wrong-doing in public but in sole when no one around or atleast person is with one opposite gender. First of all that person afraid to commit wrong-doing because of a unknown “fear” (definition of “fear” may vary due to ones belief) which prevent that person to commit but when wrong doing is done. The person think that nothing happened nor he or she faced any consequences, in fact that he or she enjoyed the experience so he or she repeat wrong-doings which actually good at the moment but whenver the person think that if it is wrong, than why he or she didn’t faced any consequences? What he or she was believing since he or she was born was just a fable? So he or she looks around and see others are doing same thing hiddenly and/or openly but so far nothing happend to them. Furthermore he or she thinks "due to my belief, I actually tightened myself so hardly that I was blindly believing what was told to me since my childhood. What I heard since was it wrong?

I think this is the stage where a person is actually in delusion which weaken his or her belief and he or she don’t wish to believe anymore in his or her belief which were taught since his or her childhood. He or she just want to be a part of this world not the part of life after.

If you understand what I wrote above then plz share how one overcome to the ‘wrong-doing’ with/without experiencing it and keep his or her belief stonger?

many of us think this way that he or she did the same exact thing but that person is living a very nice life…first we have to understand that we all are diferent from each other…though we are humans but we all are diferent in one way or the other…we think percieve things differently we put them into action differently our niyaah cant be the same…thus the outcome cant be same as welll…i think we shouldnt compare our lives with any person…except when we have to learn something good and when we want to take ibret from someone’s life…

now since we all are here to be tested…we all are put into different situations and circumstances and now its upto us to that how we deal with them…i was told by one of my friend that if you want to become strong metleb you only want to fear ALlah and expect from Alllah then you should do three things…actually life is not simple we have to keep track of our actions we cant just let it go…else it will show its ASSer …
first is riyazet! that you have to stay positive no matter what happens you have to direct yourself in the right direction(that is to stay positie and say thanks to Allah and expect good from him and if something bad happens do sabr)

second is mujahida…which is to indulge in ibadaat…not only wajibat but also mustahbaat…duas and tasbeehat as much as you can)
and third is mesghol fi nafs…which is to daily think of your good and bad actions that you perform and make promise that you will not do it again…or to think that today i will perform this (good action) and will stay away from (bad action) which will make Allah unhappy…

so ihave learned that you cant earn any status unless you do all this!
see to make us look beautilful in today’s world we do so much cleasning toning scrubbing…facials…manis pedis and what not…to stay beautiful right…

so we cant just have it on a silver plate…and i tried doing this and within few days you just go back to your regular routine…

one way to keep track of everything is to jot down…write every day !
and when you start doing the opposite of all this your belief will start to weaken right..
i hope what i wrote makes sense! may Allah increase our toofeqat!