My friend told me there was a good picture of her where she was sitting with her friends and when she showed it to her husband, he commented on how one of her friends was pretty. She told me she would stop showing any pictures with her friends anymore and she would not have them over while her husband was home. I thought this was really odd but then I noticed other girls having the same attitude. They watch their friends and relatives who they feel are “competition” like a hawk and make it clear that they don’t want you around their husbands, which makes things quite uncomfortable.
Jealous tendencies apply to both men and women so if you have a good looking friend or relative, do you think they are competition and try to keep them at arm’s length so your husband or wife won’t think they are better than you?
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so true...some people are like that. Well to be honest...im not insecure about my looks so i dont feel the need to compete with anyone...now that doesnt mean that i think im the best looking girl out there or anything...far from it...it just means im confident in myself because for every flaw i may have in terms of looks....Allah has blessed with many other good qualities to make up for it.
so to answer ur question....no i dont think/feel that beautiful girls are competition for me and no i will not keep them arms length away from my husband. Inshallah i wont need 2 cuz hopefully i will end up marrying a guy who will lower his gaze himself.
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wait till ur husband drolls over other girls, we will see how worried you r about those girls being comfy...
hey its my husband, i do watever i want with him...why r u so worried about em? If someone doesnt want u around their hubby its their problem, not urs.
but i wouldnt keep him away from anyone..one cuz i trust him, two if hes checking my friends out liek that, i dont want him so he wont be my hubby anymore which means theres no problem..
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about the girls being comfy? 
i wouldnt be with a guy that drools over other girls…it’s sad how some girls tolerate it.
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^I know for a fact the testosterones in my body will force me to appreciate other women even after i am married, so i am planning to nip it in the bud by not even looking at strange women. I will always glance at them obliquely.
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pathetic
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^^ 
we know you are!
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I wouldn't like it if my husband drooled over other girls and I understand why those wives behave the way they do, but wouldn't that make their husbands think they should keep their likes to themselves and not tell their wives if they think someone is pretty?
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well thats only natural. But 2 drool over them is another story…therefore it is always best just to lower ur gaze.
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some men like to see their wives get jealous…just like some women like to see their men get jealous…it’s just a stupid pathetic game for them.
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I dont know I will have to ask people around me
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it can get ugly
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a jao meray paaas. kuch flirting shlurting kar lenh.
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maybe i become possesive too later.. but at present i'm not.
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said it rite ! 
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Low :(
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Interesting post...
Firstly just because a man is attached doesnt mean that the rest of the women in the world become ugly is it?...
drooling and going all ga ga over a girls picture is one thing...saying a girl is pretty is another...
These girls should have a bit more confidence in themselves and realise that their partner is with them because he likes them...if he liked the other girl he would try and get with her...be a bit more secure and such problems wont arise...not every girl that a man acknowledges as pretty is someone who is competition...
Girls can be funny sometimes...my friends girl gets angry with him because he likes Jessica Alba...for gods sake hes hardly making a play for her he just think shes nice...
Im lucky...girls tend to like my Christina Milian poster...and appreciate my good taste...
Its just immaturity and insecurity on the girls part...she needs to realise that a man doesnt lose the ability to know what is nice and what isnt once he gets into a relationship...i do however think it is silly for him to mention it...because he should realise girls are insecure about these things...the problem always arises when you are asked if you think someone is pretty...you never know whether the correct answer is the right answer lol...
But i do understand the insecurity aswell...if you are not an attractive girl and your partner is attractive then you will somewhat insecure if he says he thinks other girls are pretty...also if the girls whom the insecurity is a result of are completely different to your girl she will natrually become insecure...so my girls tend to have curves...if i always watch TV and get excited whenever Ally McBeal is on screen(which i dont)...i can understand why she would get concerned for example...
So this is all a result of insecurity...it cant always be helped...but boys just remember to keep your mouth shut if you can...save you a lot of problems...
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hard.