I'm not mincing words, I mean what I say. I'm being honest and not being a smart alec, unlike you.
I expressed what I felt and there is no comparison.
No actually I don't expect romantic love from my husband, you can't fool yourself!
I like what we have, a very open and matter of fact relationship.
The heart wants, what it wants.
He had previous relationships prior to marriage and I understood what that meant.
We both have a very beautiful companionship and I'm extremely grateful for that!
Some people are married and can't even have a civil conversation never mind true companionship!
Ha!
As regards approach-ability:
SCENARIO # nTH ;): Once i got a proposal of someone in my hospital(lets call him X),through my senior resident (Y). X and Y are friends.I was told that that X is interested in me(though I didn't Even knew who in fact he was).I said okay tell him to talk to my parents but he said that Y says he wants to talks to u first.His parents wont talk to urs unless u first see X and say okay.
I Said No,I cant meet him....How can I meet someone with the sole thought of Rishta meeting in my mind? It felt odd ....So I guess I'm pretty unapproachable !!
I am a gal so would prefer for a guy to approach me. However if I were in a situation where I really liked someone, perhaps I might make myself magically appear wherever he was lol. But I would pretend that it was a coincidence. Cos men naturally like to chase women, and we can't take that away from them lol