Re: how about wives???
so wives are quite unselfish and they would feel better and secure if the husband loves the kids more... . I think women are just designed this way and its instilled in us that its ok if hubby gets jealous and demands mroe attention but being a woman we shouldn't be complaining about it. oh well, probably, I have to experience this before I believe in it.. so I am not in a position of further arguments.
Muzna.. when I said, wives bring the kids in the world, I meant the pain and suffering and by no means I was trying to say that we have created these kids but also Allah Taala has given us a credit for going through the nine months of pain and labor by saying that heaven lies under the feet of mother. :-)
The purpose of the thread was just to get an insight about it rather than arguing about ifs and buts of it.