i will be very honest here....there r some qualities they have which we lack and vice versa! i do realise now they r more into families n the whole bond where as we desis are going their earlir way and wanting more privacy. So its high time we make this generalization abt the goras not caring for their families. BUT what i would definately like to point out is that we desis are much more hospitable. If we have less food to eat we would rather give it to our guests but most goras are not even welcoming to guests as they like a private life. Ofcourse there are exceptions to all these cases but thats what the overall idea is....
And i do not agree that the goras want their kids to be independent n all that so they do all that.....i think they use to be just selfish before and not realise that in oder to get something you gotta sacrificet 2...if you want to have babies u gotta look for them too not just send them out 2 baby sitters and u yrself go out clubbing....but that has changed alot now and unfortunately this trend has attacked us desis now....