It's 50-50 if you want it to be. Most women just plain feel guilty or inadequate if she sees her hubby doing some of the cooking cleaning chores.
I for one NEVER HAD THAT COMPLEX :) (THANK GOD!)
I'll chop the pyaz and he's put it in haandi. Sometimes he grills. He Vacums - I DUST. He put the luandry into the washer and dryer and I fold and put it away. Each one of us takes one child to put to bed. (He gets the easier one)
Your chores double with kids. So there is no other way.
Sometimes we do ROCK PAPER SCISSORS for whose turn it is to change the diaper :)
cute...love the rock paper scissor system!