Re: HOT PINK/BLACK LEHNGA!
What was the groom planning to wear? Traditional? suit? I agree maybe a tad bit too much if you both went all out and wore hot pink and black but you could compromise?
If he wears kameez-maybe black kurta with a hot pink scarf/hot pink work but only a little not too heavy? maybe black work with little bits of hot pink in somewhere! (sorry just throwing in ideas!)
if he wants to wear a suit-maybe add a hot pink tie?
For you- im assuming you will ahve to got with majority hot pink? and maybe black work? as i dont think you would want to wear a black lehnga would you? Then again im sure if you really wanted to you could think of way! ;)