she came over today. spoke for 3 hours about her problems.....I didnt say much as I think she just needed to talk....told her to pray and read Quran and speak to her husband about what she feels and why she feels so....
but after she left I have had such a headache and my body is aching cuz of hthe tension. i feel so sorry for her.....but at the same time i really cant cope with listening to stuff about violence, infidelity, narrowmindedness etc...
Bibi.... Araam farmaye... Leave the rest alone. As sudden as it came e first time around, there is no guarantee it wont happen again..god forbid... I would only think of myself right now... Tell her to talk to a social worker and leave it at that.
Take khawa's advice. Your mental and emotional health are important for the baby too. If you're getting cues from your body that this is too much, then it's too much.
Take maximum rest! Just think about yourself and ur baby...
MashAllah u seem to be a really nice person. Hope ur mum is there with you soon! wish i was somewhere around you, defo wud'v called u over to my place :)
Gosh think of yourself and baby, stress is certainly not good for u both!
Yesterday we had a death in hubby's family and had calls coming at night time .. it was enough to stress me out and even today I can feel the impact on me ... not good but what can be done.
It has been some stressfull days. Eventhough I had decided not to be stressed and just relax until baby is born the problems literally landed at our place in the middle of the night last week!!!
After having heard her version and trying to comfort her we did speak to her husband as we cant pretent nothing has happened. I told him off harshly in the beginning and then we realized that we were actually councelling the couple.....khayr anyways, they seemed to realize they both have wronged and will work on their marriage.
I was drained when we got home. but now I have no plans of being involved. I have said what I needed to say. mum is coming soon and we will relax together while hubby will be travelling with work for some days next week. have a dr. appointment next week and am sure mum will enjoy to go with me:)