Salaams all,
I really don't know what the girls situation is as for her choices and what she's decided to do, it's really up to her.
My personal issue is someone else "outing" her past, i don't think it's very nice...whatever their reasoning. I've decided to ignore person A's email and assume that either Person B knows about it already (assuming others got the email) OR if i let her know, it would hurt her...so why add more stress.
By an odd coincidence, i called my cousin overseas and she mentioned she was going to the girl's shadi...so guess the wedding is still on. Inshallah she'll be happy.
something like this happened to a friend of mine, he was dating some girl, they broke up for whatever reason, she got engaged, he sent her family their pics together, the normal ones, now everyone has lost respect for her, she also got my friend arrested for harassment, he spent a night in jail, but he didnt do anything wrong, so he is waited for an apology otherwise he is going to press charges or something.
dont worry her life is ruined....haha
besides she gonna get in trouble with the law now...she deserves it.
he only sent the clean pics of them to her family, he didnt write or say anything, besides he cuda sent the x-rated ones but chose not to.
I think guys that do that are retarded, they are not man enough to face the rejection so they resort to other things like hackign the girls email and sending parents pics and stuff. I have personally known two guys like that and they both suffer from the worst kind of inferiority complex.
^ Let them deal with it, sooner or later they'll realize what htey did was wrong and apologize.. let Allah deal with them, who in the hell are you to ruin someones reputation and ruin them?
I never have done that, besides what the guys do was wrong and should and probably will apologize (to who?, who would girls apologize to?), and Allah swt will also deal with them, who are you to judge.
^ Judging by your reaction , it seems like you would do that type of stuff if you ever got in that situation.. and anyway i wasnt pointing you out specifically, i just meant "you" in general
Afridi, why was she punished? Cause she 'dated' somebody and then got engaged to someone else after her and her first 'boyfriend' broke up for "whatever reason"? Is that why?
Why did your friend feel the need to send any photos in the first place? Could he not handle her moving on with her life? Or is there more to this story that you are not sharing?
It was wrong cuz she dated someone, did alot of "things", and lol he wasnt her first boyfriend.
Was it right for her family to make false accusations, get him arrested, and make him spend a night in jail?
Sara, whose telling you I'm not getting sum, I only told you I'm not dating anyone.
