Re: ~ HOPE, TRUST, CONFIDENCE~
Excellent topic!
no matter how a person is without being sinful sinful, no one has the right to belittle any person, but when someone must call out on another person, is when the other person is making alibis, and is being uncaring and thoughtless and blaming others for his/her lack of actions.
that is why in faith, forgiveness comes only after one has practically done what one should have, to make a difference in what one did earlier and lost someone or something really precious and good for him/her.
hope, trust and confidence form that triangle, that whoever possesses carefully and makes use of it, as an honest being, is able to bring the best out in others and in oneself, without deceiving anyone or prejudging or expecting anyone to change at the behest of doubts and fears and sickening attitude of sacredness due to some conscious or unconscious complexes.
specially when someone tried to heal someone, and that healer's help is shoved down a drain, then it means that for that action, there was no faith and hope nor confidence in the person who denounced honest offering of care.
Allah swt also does not like us to be thankless, and selfish.
we all may have different and severer or milder flaws, but when it comes to the integrity of a character, the transparency of a soul's committing will power, then these milder or severer way of beings, or habit are not what one ideally should get hung up on.
there is a lot more that a team of two can bring out in each other, instead of being beset by conventionalities of limited thoughts or educational class difference.
what can who make of this?
this all has to do with a certain thought proess of being easy on yourself and easy on others, and with patience, good things happen in communication and in being interactive. but some people learn this very late. unfortunately.
it is always those individual choices – rational or hurried, wrong or right, that bring out the outcomes, and then either contentment is felt or regret overwhelms and the pivot is what the three words of thread are - hope, trust and confidence.
best,
Dushwari