Hope for single ladies

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Re: Hope for single ladies

@gudiaali

Society definitely is responsible for putting these girls under depression but sometimes parents specially mothers also play a part in adding to this depression. not intentionally though but it happens. Many mothers fear that what will happen if their daughters won’t get married while the parents are alive, they fear that they will be at mercy of their brothers and their wives and the brothers/bhabhis will mistreat them. Now this fear is not baseless at all particularly in Pakistani society but being vocal about this in front of your daughters and keep whining about this only makes the girls more depressed. they get more depressed fearing they will have a drastic life if their parents pass away before their marriages and then they will be at mercy of their siblings etc.

That’s why girls should get educated. No woman should feel like that if she doesn’t marry she will be a burden on someone or she will end up hungry/unable to pay bills/etc.

Horrifying stuff to be in that position. Not every man gets married, and not every girl gets married, and nothing wrong with a career as a back up plan in life, even if you’re not career driven.