Re: Hope for single ladies
[FONT=Times New Roman]at bold: says a lot about you a as person. Haven’t met you in person but judging only from your post on GS, I am afraid to say that you do not come across as an open minded or humble person. For god sake, you are complaining about a poor working class guy having a pretty wife or a fat guy marrying an aishwarya rai look alike as if it was the worst crime to be poor or fat.
I say give up. Your mind has fixated the idea that everyone is beneath your league one way or the other..for all the reasons you have stated in red. Marriage isn’t for all and like you said, sometime one is happier alone. So show it! At this time, you do not seem like a happy person and you seem to waste your time analyzing the lifestyle and relationship of all the ‘morons’ around you. Mind your own business and you will find happiness.
Be happy and kind to people around you. Any guy / guy’s mother or even person who is showing likeness towards you should be considered as a blessing…not an insult! You rejecting him/the family is you’re own right..but stop right there. No need to start the ‘did they really think I will settle for THAT’ attitude.
And you realized that what my sister is doing isnt fair, so it might be time to realize that it is also unfair that you brand all the girls who have settled for less than their ‘ideal’ as wife’s of morons and second rate idiots . Just because you would have rejected these guys, doesn’t mean another girl will necessarily think the same way as you. Your ‘ideal’ choice is not this world’s benchmark!
Oh and stop blaming the community for not helping you out. All the rishtas that come to you are not through YOU because if it was..it would have been a love marriage and story finished…these rishtas are referred from someone you know thus your community. People are helping you. You are not accpeting their ‘kind’ of help.
Last post from me to you on this topic.
Every guy I have considered/met was on my own. Not one reference through a relative/parental friend/contact that has panned out to even a real exchange of information between parents.
The websites have given me way more game, than otherwise I’d have.