Re: Honeyfund
Ok, so in my humble opinion, a “honey fund” is an even bigger faux pax then “no boxed gifts”. A wedding is an occasion in which you are inviting family, friends and loved ones to rejoice with you on this new journey, not fund your massages or snorkeling excursions. It’s extremely presumptuous to dictate to people what they should or should not gift you. Honestly, if I were to receive a wedding invitation with the request to deposit money or gift money towards the couple’s honeymoon, I would politely decline the invite and sit the wedding out.
Majority of weddings nowdays people gift money, well close family & friends tend to, why not just use that? Specifically asking for contributions towards your honeymoon does clme across abit tacky as people would assume if you can afford a wedding then surely you can afford a small honeymoon thats between you and hubby. And im a firm believer the guy should organise the honeymoon! Lol thats just me
All of what you’re saying makes sense. My gora friends don’t see the problem with doing somthing like that but I wanted desi ppl’s opinion. It seemed a little off to me too…