Re: Honesty
For a man who is a good pious Muslim and truly God-fearing, the answer to this should be obvious.
Kismat only does so much. Your friend’s disease is a perfect example. When he got cancer, he didn’t leave it up to kismet decide what happens next. He took it upon himself to get treatment. I’m sure you wouldn’t drive a car without a seatbelt and see what kismat has in store for you. In a situation like this, for ANY man to claim that it’s the woman’s kismat to end up in this situation and this justifies him lying by omission is a cowardice act.
Not a deal breaker for me but I’m also not super crazy about the idea of having biological children. However, if I found out that he intentionally lied/kept hidden from me something so big…then THAT would be a deal breaker.