honesty needed. upset,.:/

[Lusi]

Re: honesty needed. upset,.

@nadz123

because i feel his requests usally are to please his parents and i feel like im competing with them for his affection.

like if mil ill, he will expect me too cook that day.

if im ill, he would never expect or ask his mum to make me something.

Stop competing with in laws. Just switch your mil with your mom. Are you going to cook if your mom is ill? Would you get jealous if he checks on your mom? Do you think he will expect your mom to cook when you are sick. I don’t think so. I don’t think my husband will. Like we said before, you will only distance yourself from your husband if you keep competing with family. For a change try to become part of his family. Respect them and respect his wishes. I am sure you will hate if your bhabi starts competing with your mother.