honesty needed. upset,.:/

[Paheli00]

Re: honesty needed. upset,.

@nadz123

my reactions to issues were possibly larger than the problem.

Seriously…go back and re-read your past thread instead of asking us to repeat ourselves over and over again. We have been telling you for YEARS that your reactions to issues are larger than the problem!

@nadz123

i keep thinking i am fighting for my rights.

Bingo! Right there. Your #1 problem. Its all about YOU! For once try to think of life from your husband’s point of view.

@nadz123

however husband insisted i actually SHOW them the tickets too,.i said ok later. i didnt. because i didnt understand why he was sucking up to them and why they needed to see it not as if im going today he later asked me i said no i didnt show yet.

Again…thinking with your emotions instead of using your brain. You don’t need to understand anything when it comes to a stupid request like this. He asked you to show his parents the plane tickets. You should up gotten up right then and there and showed them the tickets right in front of your husband. Baat khatam. But no, once again, you allowed your emotions to make a big mess out of a situation that could’ve been taken care of so easily.

@nadz123

he has always told me never to use his brothers laptop cos incase it messes up they will blame me. i found this silly. but i did use it and left on table where my daughter threw on floor. and it stopped working. he shouted at me for that. in private but sill shouted and sounded really mad.

Once again…thinking of NO ONE except you. Why on earth would you use your BIL’s laptop without asking BIL?! As a grown woman, mother of 2 children, the fact that you shouldn’t touch/use other people’s property (especially something like a LAPTOP) without permission…do you really need to be told this by others? Not only did you use it…but you left it in a place where your young child managed to damage it. Your husband had every right to shout/yell/scream at you. Stop doing STUPID stuff! Consider yourself lucky that he didn’t yell at your in front of his family.

@nadz123

husband is a dull emotionless human being. no ronance, excitement, nothing. he chose to marry me, yet since marriage hes so dull and lifeless.

And you? You didn’t choose to marry him? You didn’t know before marriage that your MIL didn’t like you? You didn’t interact with your husband BEFORE marriage and have time to figure out what type of man you were marrying? Before you start talking about what things other people chose…reflect on your own actions and think about what decisions YOU chose to make that put your life where it is today.

You can continue to create thread after thread on this but no one on GS will tell you anything new. So if you’re sincere about getting advice, the best thing is for you to go back and re-read any of your previous thread from the past 3+ years.