Honest feedback needed

[queen_24]

Re: Honest feedback needed

@mfcesarah

So i was away from my husband for a whole year very tense in that time had a causual conversation with a old friend he offered to meet up and talk but i didnt go now i am back with my husband he found out and thinks i am being dishonest with him… I dont see it as a big deal that i was causually talk to a friend nothing sexual or anything wrong but my husband izzat is hurt

So this whole year have you been talking to your old friend without bringing it into your husband’s knowledge or it was just this one day?

See, in both cases, when you hide something, even it is right, makes you wrong. If you knew, you were not doing anything wrong, you would have not hidden it from your husband at the first place. You hid, means you knew it wasn’t something your husband would appreciate.

If I were you, and if I knew that whatever XYZ thing im doing is not wrong, I would share it with my husband. Things, that I feel, I won’t be able to share with my husband, would never do. I always believe, before someone else comes and interprets the situation in a negative way, I should be the first to tell it to my husband.