I know this is a taboo subject but it exists in our community.
What do people think of it?
What about lesbianism? One of my friend’s whose cousin went to Kinnaird College told me that she told him that it is quite common there and in boarding schools everywhere (male and female)…
any comments? i think that pakis indulge in it as a means of sexual relief until they can get married when it stops…
^ !!! waiting for some replies!
I would think that homosexuality exists at the same levels in Pakistan as anyother country. Also, our cultural segregation of the men and women would make it (theoretically) easier for gays and lesbians to be together. Since guys going arm and arm and girls holding hands is not frowned upon, it would really be easy to slip past the morality police (AKA Everyone).
I am not entirely sure if it's done for sexual relief until marriage because I am sure that there are plenty of guys and girls available and willing for that purpose that changing your orientation is not neccessary. But then again stranger things have happened in jails (the US), so I would be sure.
yes , It is true i was not aware of that fact too but then :( Some one told me even married woman sleep togather and say oh well we are missing our Husband naaaaa... and same goes with married men huh
I've met a couple of FOBs who indulge in it and to them it's no big deal. They discuss it like they were talking about yesterday's football match.
[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by Mr Xtreme: *
I've met a couple of FOBs who indulge in it and to them it's no big deal. They discuss it like they were talking about yesterday's football match.
[/QUOTE]
Ditto!
my cousins in pakistan do it all the time, i've heard em talk about it soo openly.. i think its mostly the village guys who do it.. once my uncle even caught my cousin and this other guy doin it in the stable.. lol.. but they didnt make a big deal out of it..
No the guys I met were from Karachi. Maybe it goes on all over the place - kind of a freaked out FOB phenomenon 
well it’s pretty sad to see the state of muslimhood coming down to this but the fact is that homosexuality has existed since long before organized religion came into play. for the greeks and romans it was common accepted practice, especially on battlefields. i’m sure similar examples exist for women as well who indulge and have indulged in such alternate sexual behavior. it’s just sad to see that the tide is turning these days into acceptance of such sexual behavior not only secularly but in the name of religion also, as some groups wrongfully claim. very very sad.
In greek society your lover was another man.. the women were there only for procreation.
i.e.
regular sex = same sex partners
in my village once i saw a guy ****ing a donkey! i had just come from england and i couldn’t believe it!!
as for ancient greece…bisexuality for men (with younger guys) was the norm…
i think it is in pakistan too in practise–the number of times i have heard desis from FOB joking about some young guy they have ‘done’ is sick!
Then again in the UK apparently 1 in 10 ppl is gay…
The mind boggles!
:yukh: :yukh: i can believe people actually talk about it after theyve done it, why cant people keep this **** to themselves, and then there are the people who are willing to listen, if someone started telling me what they got up to, id walk away and fast.
I have an article on it...how true the testimonies within it are...i'm not sure...dont have time to retype it up for you guys but I'll see if I can dig it up to post up experts
homosexuality and bisexuality does exist in all classes in Pakistan...its just manifested differently between rich and poor people.
Re: Homo/bi/sexuality amongst pakistanis...
[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by sybarite: *
What about lesbianism? One of my friend's whose cousin went to Kinnaird College told me that she told him that it is quite common there and in boarding schools everywhere (male and female)...
[/QUOTE]
So many dykes at KC man, I heard about this myth or whatever that two girls were sitting under a tree french kissing or something and got caught and got expelled. But now you can see alot more action in those nasty, filthy bathrooms and the dorm rooms. Though homosexuality is very common in Pakistan among those kaami people, or mazdoor log tangay wala people along those lines.
yea i heard sumthangz like dat 2 cuz one of my close friend moved to pk after livin here in usa n she got admitted to an all gurl college (not der nemore) newayz she told me wut goes on n after hearin her stories i wuz in such shock n awe i tawt it wuz jus here neva imagined it wud b like der in asian countires Owell dnt we learn sumthing new everyday
Yes it definetely exists :(. I was returning from Islamabad a while back. And in bus i met the general secy of Lahore Gays association aka ‘LGA’ and he told me quite a few eye opening facts like how elite class do it out of pure desperation, fun, time pass etc etc. It was weird to hear 
. He said that most ppl wont refuse any girl etc etc coz they do it with guys just out of frustration . He also told me about LLA 
and how these associations sometimes collborate with each other 
It was weird to hear such things about our society. Though always known, but to hear frm a person who is a member of that elite panel was weird to say the least
And usually i sleep during my travel but i couldnt sleep ke so gaya tu yeh general secretery kya karay pata nahi 
I think you did the right thing by not sleeping :biggthumb 
Question
Guys
Why think negative about people in Pakistan we grew up among so many friends and I for one am not what you guys are talking about and yes we hold hands and put Arms around friends. guys and guys but noone ever thought of this BS. and I am not saying this things doesn't happens in Pakistan but sure enough it happens here in America. and I can tell you the Reason. because american People have made Sex a common thing not a big deal when it comes to relationship. if you are a good friend of a girl they will think that you must have slept with her. when they mention Love their exact meaning is want to have Sex. and in their mind touching each other has only one meaning. which is sex so when they see someone in other country putting arms around other guys they think this. it is all in mind my friends. not everbody is like this we have to start thinking positive first not negative.
It is sad that we don't agree with each other in a positive way. and agrees to all negative things. there are two sides of everything.
Just my two cents.
i totally agree with raja..