That is the problem here. You really do believe you live by a different and anmol set of standards and values. I think the reason people are responding negatively is because your assumptions about public schooling are not that accurate. You admitted you were home schooled so maybe what I am saying is foreign to you.
Do you really believe all the kids of these parents know 200 curse words? Are being subjected to all sorts of emotional trauma and whatnot? No. They’re not because they don’t have parents who get “frustrated” with them. These are assumptions and ANY parent (Im not even a parent yet) would get offended reading them. The parents on these boards are so irresponsible and unaffected they do not care what they’re kids are doing out there? Right?
Your set of values doesn’t differ from anyone else’s here. There’s nothing different or abnormally amazing about wanting the best for your children…its what every parent dreams of. The difference is…we want to teach our kids how to uphold those values in today’s society. To be strong in their morals and belief system realizing the world they’re a part of.