Sorry PM- i didnt mention the whole end of the story i didnt think it needed to go any further- but while they were over they were pushing us to decide withint the 2 days so while they were visiting they can do a small ceremony! So it got me thinking why are they pushing it so much- is there something that i should know and if i pursue it i will find out later? But they had accepted the risthaa thru the pictures- I am sorry but i cannot decide my future within seeing pictures and a 3 day visit from people.
Im not saying im hurt to get rejected haha thats not even the LAST of my worries- its the fact what they said to my mother. Put it in ur shoes- if that happened to u or ur sister or cousin- im sure if somebody threw some horrible words at ur parents or u- or any loved one of urs- it will sting? No? khair ur a monk- u wouldn't understand :@: