Hey angel21 where is your magic wand or angel dust which you can use to tame him.:D
You just got married , so a few months are not enough to start ranting about your husband behaving like a jerk.
Married life is not a relationship it is a bond and a bond takes time , sacrifices , communication, compromises and much more.
So relax, enjoy the show , listen to what he is saying and why he is saying so. You have the right to ask him why he want certain thing done in certain way , if it makes sense to you then accept it , but if you have different POV let him know but coolly and calmly.
The biggest key here is that you got married in a desi family , desi men still are not at that level on the ladder of evolution where they will consider their wives their equals and give importance to their views automatically. You will have to earn his confidence and respect. It is a reality , the sooner you accept it the sooner you will learn to deal with it and trust me it is not a rocket science , you will learn to cope with all this in due time. Again so be patient and enjoy the show which is called married life.
Mods I guess this thread belongs to Life1 .