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[Barbie_Girl]

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shiku motay....dont you know my name....thas horrible......snooty*

[parissenoor]

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@Sadaf

Okay I hope (not expect) this helps u guys to differenciate between hope and expectation.

HOPE - grounds for believing that something good may happen: he does see some hope for the future.

EXPECTATION - a belief that someone will or should achieve something: students had high expectations for their future.

so the difference btw hope and expectation is only a probablity matter…as probabilities are relative…in my relative world the two concept merges as one…and I have to forget both of them…
one is left: DREAM, something good that will never happen

[Sohaib]

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@parissenoor

so the difference btw hope and expectation is only a probablity matter…as probabilities are relative…in my relative world the two concept merges as one…and I have to forget both of them…
one is left: DREAM, something good that will never happen

Though I dont agree with you regarding hope and expectation but the bolded part is absolutely real.

[ImranQ]

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@Anwaar Qureshi

I think one must believe in him/herself before believing in others…

EXPECTATIONS are really the weaknesses of a relationship. Relationship is based on caring and not asking for favours.

If you are good, everything is good, and bad otherwise.

i don’t really agree!

being nice with someone doesn’t guarantee same response.

secondly, going into relationship without expectations is totally unleasitic, however, keeping expectations down is a better approach or be prepared for huge disappointment.

[ImranQ]

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@KashmiriRainDrops

I think if u go into a relationship with a clean slate, no baggage, no expectations and no pressure…then it will go more smoothly.

why bother getting into relationships then?

expectations, desired, wishes n dreams no one can live without them

[nia_khan]

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NO expectations at all . just be loyal to each other....

[saimanyc]

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I agree with Imran. A relationship should be based on some basic things. Love, loyalty, trust, respect. If these things are missing it's doomed to fail. I expect my marriage to have all of these qualities. We expect to be eachother's strength and support. We hope we still look at eachother with love and respect in our eyes when we're 80.

If someone goes into a relationship with no expectations they're putting no value on it or on themselves.

[KashmiriRainDrops]

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ImranQ, i think u forgot the bit below, from my post…Y bother going into a relationship then, u ask? Is that all u think a relationship consists of then, just expectations put on one another? As i said previously, u need some expectations, that’s obvious (faithfulness etc.)…but apart from those it’s wrong to have high expectations as, more often than not, they will just make problems even bigger. Sure, expectations and dreams etc. are a part of life…i just think u need to keep them realistic that’s all.

But hey, u do wot works for u.

@KashmiriRainDrops

** I don’t like the idea of expectations in a relationship. Of course, u need some…like u expect ur partner to be faithful etc…but other than things like that, i think they can cause problems. If they r realistic, fine…sometimes though, ppl expect too much of us…that’s when disappointments happen. **

[ImranQ]

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@KashmiriRainDrops

ImranQ, Is that all u think a relationship consists of then, just expectations put on one another?

realistically speaking, YES!!

if i em good enough for her (comes upto her expectations) then i em a good hubby for her n vise versa.

the point is don’t get into relationships for the sake of change etc. but only if u think its worth a try!

but i agree with realistic expectations part!!!

saimanyc summarized exceptionaly well " If someone goes into a relationship with no expectations they’re putting no value on it or on themselves."

[KashmiriRainDrops]

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I didn't say there shud be NO expectations, there r some of course (obvious) as i have said.

But u actually think, all a relationship consists of is expectations...
i don't agree, there is a lot more to it...but if that's wot works for u, good.