Hey guppies,
I know i don’t post alot but im a very regular reader of this discusion boared.
so plzzz answer me,
I have been living with out hubby for almost a year n now he is comin next week.
n i am having these weired feelings…
I am excited too , been married to him for like 2 1/2 years lived togather for like 1 1/2 year n then i came here ( to sponsor him).
its like im getting married to him all over again… (Like shy n nerves…)
IS THAT NORMAL??
or im weired
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very normal
there were plenty of desis in middle east who went to pak to get married and left after a month and waited for months, sometimes years to get the visas for their wives and were fairly nervous when they were coming over, or when they were going to pakistan.
from what I have heard that shyness and nervousness passes pretty quickly though, as long as the couple has tried to keep up with each other's life. much easier in todays ers of cheap phone, video calls, webchat etc. back in the day ppl just had letters and very expensive, thus infrequent calls that is if the wife in pak had a phone in her house.
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I salute u two for having spent 1 year away from each other.
:Salute:
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seriously! i couldn't do that!
you're very brave.
it'll be fun for you to have his company again, spend time with him, do things together. 2 is better than 1 :)
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Almost a year? WoW! :(
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That’s very normal, sweety…dont worry, you’ll be alright…
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aww...i think its very normal, and you should take advantage of it, that weird, shy, nervey, butterfly in the stomach king of feeling can be a really good thing.
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Very normal.. I used to feel shy in the begining after spending 2-3 days without him 
Dont worry, you’re definitely not alone.. and you’re very brave to spend this much time without him. 
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thats normal I also felt like that when myhubby cameto england after 3 years. Its quite fun getting used to being together again. Enjoy it. :)
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I felt like that when hubby went away for 2 weeks...it was like meeting all over again.....and I feel the same now since I came back from being away too...
ENJOY IT!
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I want to say something here but think its better to keep my mouth shut.
hehehehhehehehhe
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I am curious, is the physical part (not sex) that you women missed or emotional? As a man I can only imagine how hard it is for men not to have a wife for physical (again, not sex) and emotional support for long periods of time.
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Thanks every1 for there replies, it helped me alot to hear im not the only one who is goin through this situation.
Fraudz: i no what u mean, i had some ppl in my family who used to visit their wives after years n at that time they never get the chance to talk to their spouses on regulary bases. but we used to chat almost everyday on msn messanger n talk on fone but still gonna see him after a year and 6 dayz. i cam here on 17feb 2006. :)
Iconoclast: Thanks Iconoclast for appriciating it.
somegroveychik, sara 516, frista2, Ramsa, Sadaf, Wana-be-mum, Tabusaum n fallenpita.......... Thanks all for you reply.
In reply to some of your questions, Yah it was very hard to be alone for a year n a week. and i think i didn't mention b4....When i came here i had 7 months old daughter with me n now mashallah she is 19 months. He missed her first talk her first walk as she was our first baby.
In these terms i missed him alot.
N u no what i need some appriciation(from in laws) for doing that for their son. to live here all alone. but they are taking that so normal. now all they worry is that their son is going away from them.
LIKE I AM NO ONE.......:(
They did same thing when we got married like i am stealing their son away and all my nands gave me lectures how to treat sisters n bla bla
Maybe that is the reson i have feeling that i am getting married all over again cuz i know he will have his brain washed when he will come..........
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yeah but now he'll be all yours and you can spend time with him and he'll get to know you better and it'll be awesome. and then next time he's away, he'll be longing to come back cos he'll miss you!
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:)
Yah i hope so...Thanks
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It'll be fun Inshallah! :) Think of how nice it'll be to see your husband and baby bonding too Inshallah!
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I will just hope and pray that the one year partition between you two increases your love for eachother :) all the best!