Re: hmm
then marriage is an illusion.
a warm house is an illusion.
kids are an illusion.
going through thick and thin is an illusion.
companionate affection is an illusion.
adam and eve is an illusion.
life long struggles to make life easy and protected for loved ones is an illusion.
this illusion CRAP is to feel justified in being a COWARD, a DECEIVER and a HELPLESS individual.
unless s/he can prove other wise.
& it does not make sense. not even to those who rip love apart out of their frustrations and limitations.
love is a defining factor for giving and receiving care. it leads to forgiving, accomodating in a trusting two way manner and it is the essence of all sacrifice.
can you DENY that?
no love, no care - it is as clear as mud.
dushwari