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Dush i am a girl 
and i am just saying that do you have anything strategic in your mind 
because i have been through lot of manupulative ladies and its horrible experience.
P.S. one more thing i heard that ALLAH created strategy in women and dislike it so even if we try to be simple but we are different.Well love is a mixture of sweet and sour candies so everyone likes sweet and sour candy 
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Lajawab,
nope. candy will not go sour.
although, there is a probable chance that it will feel good with the wrapper.
if the wrapper, is provided at that.
dushwari
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ume zareefah,
as a woman, u must be more careful.
interest has a lot to do with many things in life, but in realiaty, a realization does ever more.
but it will make sense when women and men get past the dead obvious smoke screen of wrong self justifications or temporary temptations.
dushwari
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well i think in practical life you have to play fair and square and love is only based on trust and realities. And in practical life you have to be more truthful not playing games which i am .
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exactly.when trust is not there, it is hurtful.
but when trust was assured and then distrusted, that gets stuck in mind of the trust breaker.
of course, a person who is dis trusted knows the agony.
twist and turn of the emotions, is played by a foolish person.
honest people are able to recognize honest feelings and never ever delibrately lose them.
& those who do it is only their choice made due to an unfairly tight personal situation.
it is up to them to break free of them, after a certain degree of support from those who mean well.
dushwari
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Moral of the story:
Love is like Milk…
It’s sweet but can become sour if not taken care of…
Now you can make yougurt out of it
OR
you can put sugar in it and cook it to make that Maawaa 
- better than candy
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no. it is not about a wish for pampering me, ume zareefah.
but pamper themselves to not feel so leaky in their denial of confused emotions.
dushwari
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nope.
a better deal.
make it concentrated.
that is good for a better SHELF LIFE, just like in a pathology lab, sample of blood platlets do, hmm!, to be observed on a selfishness, slide, in retrospect and for future reference.
dushwari
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Love is nothing but an illusion, its neither sweet, nor sour...its just something which is not real...so if it ends...dong get startled! :|
My two cents...
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then marriage is an illusion.
a warm house is an illusion.
kids are an illusion.
going through thick and thin is an illusion.
companionate affection is an illusion.
adam and eve is an illusion.
life long struggles to make life easy and protected for loved ones is an illusion.
this illusion CRAP is to feel justified in being a COWARD, a DECEIVER and a HELPLESS individual.
unless s/he can prove other wise.
& it does not make sense. not even to those who rip love apart out of their frustrations and limitations.
love is a defining factor for giving and receiving care. it leads to forgiving, accomodating in a trusting two way manner and it is the essence of all sacrifice.
can you DENY that?
no love, no care - it is as clear as mud.
dushwari
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pathology lab EWWWWWWWWWWWWWW
I have been a Network Admin in a pathology lab in NJ for Two years and the sample and the sight of it is just YUKHHHHHHHHHHHHHHh
arrghhhhh 
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^ hey hey, it is someone's livelihood.
can you go to school for X amount of years to become a pathologist?
han?
dushwari
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Well everyone needs pa,pering and if you love someone you have to prove that also sometimes it is needed. 
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hey hey hey!
I referred to the contemporary love between a guy and a girl...not the "original" love...and if the above mentioned love is also a reality, then why are there so many people around us who've been hurt by their own "beloveds"? :| and why do people end up hurting those whom they love? :| why doesn't it last long? and why do people not let others get their love legalized? why does it happen in most of the cases that one person is left alone by the other one after some time? :| why do the priorities change?
But even after all these questions, I'm sure there must be some people who believe in love strongly...well...good for them...and Dushwari, if you too belong to this category, its up to your sweet will:), I, in no way, intend to hurt you...:) and that is why I mentioned it very specifically that its my own personal point of view, I'm not asking/forcing anyone to agree with me...
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Wat’s this obsession everyone has with 'DEFINING LOVE"
love is an “idea” and just as ideas vary from one individual to another thus also the perception of love takes many forms…
it is how much u’ve CONVINCED urself of an idea that defines the STRENGTH of ur faith in it…
to each his own ,so lets move on shall we …
P.S someone mentioned candy ??? …i prefer hot , dark chocolate cake instead …go figure …lol…
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DF ..Y you lal peela hoy-ing??? ??? :aq:
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