I have to admit I have smacked another persons kid, but that was because she was gettin on mi nerves and was seriously spoilt. Her mother would never shout at her and the kid used to swear at everyone, so one day it got too much and I just wacked her on the head infront of her sister and bro. I didnt care, they need to teach the kids more tameez.
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Unless the child is physically harming himself or someone else, you have absolutely no right to touch anyone else's child. The parents could have had you charged with assualt and battery.
I understand that a lot of parents are irresponsible and fail to discipline their own children and their kids can get on your nerves. But, it's not your place to teach someone else's child tameez. What if there is someone stricter than you who dislikes your child's behaviour - would you stand by while they imposed their mores and values on your child with their version of discipline?
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I know I had no right, but I just couldnt help it. it was about 6-7 years in pak but I just feel like parents in pak dont discipline their kids. for example, one of my cousins has a child about 5 and she is sooooooo spoilt it is UNBELIAVABLE!!!!! even her own mother cannot control her, i wouldnt dare hit her cos i know what her mother is like but sometimes you just wanna do something to show the kid that their not in control, the adult is. when they come round to your house climbing on the furniture, smashing plates, pulling your hair, swearing and all that and their mother says NOTHING!!!!!!!! what do you do??? just sit there and let the rage burn up inside, tell the kid off or tell the mother to discipline her child, which may result in an argument, i.e. who are you to say that my child?
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You tell the parent who is the adult that their child is ill-mannered and that their kid has been wreaking havoc in your home. Sure the mom might consider you rude (not that you were rude, just honest), but it's better than hitting her kid in front of her - that's just an ugly situation waiting to happen.
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ear twister is best for kids.Dosent leaves the mark and serves the purpose.
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I would never hit someone elses child unless I was closely related to them but even then it would only be in extremem circumstances!
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I have regularly and severely beaten up other people's kids, sometimes because i did not like their attitude and their parents had done a piss poor job of teaching them manners, sometimes they were just hitting other kids and no one stopping them, so I hit them. many reasons, different children, different reasons.
Oh yeah, i forgot to mention, i did that when I was a kid myself :)
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^ got me worried there.
As others have said... doesnt matter how much they are getting on ur nerves. Not ur duty to discipline them.
ager amrna he ahi tu alfaaz ki maar maro " aunti next time jub aain tu plz isay saath mat laaiy ga, ye aap k gher main he achcha ha. Allah ki saza hai ye bachcha" 
Unless the child is physically harming himself or someone else, you have absolutely no right to touch anyone else's child. The parents could have had you charged with assualt and battery.
I understand that a lot of parents are irresponsible and fail to discipline their own children and their kids can get on your nerves. But, it's not your place to teach someone else's child tameez. What if there is someone stricter than you who dislikes your child's behaviour - would you stand by while they imposed their mores and values on your child with their version of discipline?
im so sick of hearing this from too, cant tell our own kids off anymore incase THEY charge us with assualt...whats the world come to..no wonder kids are batameez and spoilt brats nowadays...we were never this way, i got told off even my aunts and uncles would tell me off....i never even thought once about going to the police.....
ive seen my own cousins take the crap from their little brats who swear/kick/punch write on walls, throw food on floor, run havoc, and no one says anything. and they cry like theyve been hit, when all you do is take the pen away from them, because they are scribbling on the walls. i wish i could smack em one.
if my kid does this, most def, she/he will be taught manners and tameez and not spoilt like the rest. seen enough drama from toddlers.
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I would absolutely never touch anyone's child and expect the same for my child as well. I don't believe in hitting a child ever.. Yes it's true that some children get on your nerves but hitting is never the answer.. I would absolutely throw a fit if someone ever even touched my child.
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you should definitely not hit the child, scold them loudly maybe but not hit… I had a crazy 3 year old at my house recently, extremely badtameez (hit me also) and the mom just kept smiling and saying “laadla hai” (stupid lady)… I just don’t invite them anymore, buraa lagtaa hai tau laggay.
Hitting/Smacking is not the only way to discipline kids… I never hit my own child also, she’s totally disciplined with time-outs and taking away privileges… and MashaAllah has great manners and always listens to me. Why don’t parents use verbal forms of discipline to teach their kids manners 
I think it's totally wrong to smack SOMEONE ELSE'S child. Afterall, you don't feed them, you don't clothe them, or do anything for them, so what makes you feel you have the right to teach them manners when you do nothing else for them? If you don't like the kid, then leave them at their parent's house, and don't invite them over. If you have an issue of broken dishes in the house, talk to the mom about it; don't be a coward and hit the kid for it, because your too aftraid to the confront the mom about it.
If its your own kid, I don't mind too much..My parents smaked us when we were younger, but they also prayed for us, put food on the table, bought us a load of things even when we didn't need it and did my laundery, cleaned my room, supported us and loved us.
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If someone hit my children, i would break their hand.
If they're misbehaving, come and tell me.
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^:k:
If someone hit my children, i would break their hand.
If they're misbehaving, come and tell me.
I agree :)
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You lucky funky, it wasnt a kid of someone like me, you might have got yourself hurt. But then my kids dont go around swearing and cursing.
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I dont believe in hitting someones children cause thats not my responsilbility.
whatever the Mada’m said.. :k: