im a hijabi and i can afford to have an extravagant wedding..but since marriage is a sunnah act..it should be performed like it too.ie..simple and one which causes least problems to arrange it, to gain more blessings of Allah…however..it’s too easy to give into the temptation of having a high expense wedding!
id personally want a wedding arranged in such a way that if the prophet SAW were to be alive ,he’d attend it happily 
it would just depend upon the state of of my imaan..pressure of my family and in laws..at that point in time..