Re: Hijabi throws Extravagant Wedding
i do not understand, why do we consider wearing a hijab synoymous to depriving oneself of all other forms of entertainments or extravagance a 'non hijabi' could easily enjoy without having fingers wagged at her.
anyone who does observe pardah and wears hijab should be truly appreciated, for even this in today's world is a jehad bil nafs and does require alot of will power.
i had similar conflict of opinion with my pathology teacher, who herself wore nothing less than the most fitted and revealing clothes (no 'chugali' meant, just a realistic description). Clothing obviously is a personal matter of preference and we have no right to judge the intentions or level of naiki by that.
A friend of mine who wears hijab, was caught talking to another girl during a test. And the same teacher made a big issue out of it, and offended alot of girls by her comment
'jo ye dupattay and hijab le ker bibiyan bunti ho, to cheating kerni ho to utaar k kiya kero ye sab'
i found that quite rude..what do you guys think of this attitude?
as for PCG's thread, i agree Islam is a religion of modesty and lavish and extravagant weddings have no place in islam, but if the girl could afford it, I guess the rest lies b/w Allah and her. the same way it is b/w us (who do not yet have the courage to wear hijab) and Allah over this :)