^ sweetheart there is a clear line between being bitter and observing the etiquettes. One could not be flirting and yet be civil and sociable. To me, 'bitter' is being loud, argumentative, and acting self righteous i.e. passing judgements on others including non-hijabis and claiming that they are not *proper *muslims.
Jaanwar, if any non-hijabi, be it man or woman, spoke loudly (LOUD), expressed a different view to your own (ARGUMENTATIVE), believed that they were right (SELF-RIGHTEOUS), would you say that they were BITTER?
I haven't heard you speak, so I don't know if you are loud. I believe that you are argumentative, as are many of here on GS, and I believe that you also believe that what you say is right. Does that make you bitter, too?