Re: Hijabi girls/women..
I think the thread opener just opened a can of worms and now seems afraid to respond to any challenges to his bigoted views. How typical.
From my personal experiences, I have met many judgemental, narrow minded, overly and unnecessarily defensive and even racist non hijabi gals, than i have of similiar attitude hijabis. And the only reason I noticed this several years ago, was because to be honest, I actually expected the opposite. However that doesnt marr my opinion of them in general mostly because it seems more of a personality thing rather than anything else.
Simliarly, there are plenty of narrow minded hijabis, but i dont think it is the hijab that is causing the attitude as maybe the personality/upbringing.
Secondly, IMO to question the point of someone's hijab is akin to someone claiming to be muslim but not completing the wajibats, i.e. muslim in name only. Now those folks who are in this boat, I dont want to use the H word, but what makes you so different to the very hijabis you are so easy slandering?
Aren't you getting on your high horse here and preaching what she should and shouldn't be doing? pray tell, what makes you any different?