I find hijabis are too aggressive and they wear it more because of Wsetern inspired muslim values than say Eastern inspired. I find Hijabis to be very feminist and not very feminine. They want to do everything but in a Hijab. They thinka hijab legitmises freedom for them. Men generally want women who are meek and less opinionated.
Families judge how a future daghter-in-law behave by their actions towards others. many Hijabi girls feel that they can look directly at another man in the eyes. Families lookiong for brides for their sons find thatoff-putting, they see it as bey-sharam. Women in their eyes should never hold equal eye contact.
i dont want to stereotype Hijabis as not all are like that but muslims girls born and bred in the west who chose the hijab for themselves do it because in reality they are western girls who make conscious decisions for themselves.
With respect to Hijabis, the most common reasons I've heard for guys not considering them is that a) they're too aggressive and b) some guys want to have a working spouse, and feel that Hijabans will have difficulty getting work.
Strange, eh?
Personally, I have no complaints...would certainly consider a Hijaban ...