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*Originally posted by Muslim_Queen: *
I kind of share the view in this poem.If a girl is going to do the dating shating stuff,I would rather she didnt wear the scarf.Hijab is a mark of piety.When people such as that wear it- ruins the whole symbol it stands for.
On the other hand its really non of my business what they do.
Sigh
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Ditto.
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*Originally posted by sadzzz: *
^ Why does wearing a hijab automaticlly restrict a girl from doing things she wants? and why is it assumed that just because a hijabi is wearing jeans or watever.. shes a whore?
stop being so judgemental people... to both hijabis and non-hijabis
this poem is a joke
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Just a guy's opinion here, but don't you think its a tad bit hypocritical to on one hand wear the hijab, a symbol of modesty, and do other things that any rational person would consider immodet to say the least.
Also, I don't think the poem is implying that anyone who doesn't wear a hijab is a whore, but there are some who behave like that. Ppl need to stop being so defensive about either wearing/not wearing the hijab, wearing it doesnn't make you a saint, not wearing it doesn't make you a whore. There are whorish girls who do wear the hijab perhaps, and "clean cut" ones who don't.
Someone mentioned that hijab is both guys and girls in its essence, what exactly is a hijab for men? As far as I know, I can go out wearing a tank top and shorts w/o any problem.
if your going to wear hijab RESPECT IT.
its an image, dont abuse it.
one of my best friends was a goth, she was the jean clad type, with the most wonderful personality, but she said she wouldnt wear the hijab till she would dress in a way that respected it, and uphold its image.
shes into more modest dress now, and started wearing the hijab :) thats the way to do it,
dressing to attract and dressing islamically.
its abit like wearing a summer top and wellington boots, it DOESNT GO.
Are you trying to be funny?
How does “gothdom” < or so percieved by you, even imply disrespect?
You can still dress “islamically” = read “modestly”, a concept that is too relative to box, whilst being a “goth”.
And baby, where were you in the 60s? Wellies and summer dresses all the way, pin a flower to your scarf and you’re all set :k:
Merai laal, until you become a female, a very real possiblilty, please do not “judge” the frustration pent up by slamming our head against chovanist judgemental male attitudes.
How dare one dictate the terms of my dress? Do not presue to be so morally superior as to even suggest I do not have the spirituality to be true to both myself or my god.
The key word in that was “my”.
Jeetai raho.
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*Originally posted by Muslim_Queen: *
I kind of share the view in this poem.If a girl is going to do the dating shating stuff,I would rather she didnt wear the scarf.Hijab is a mark of piety.When people such as that wear it- ruins the whole symbol it stands for.
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Exactly!
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*Originally posted by MyStiCaL_MisS: *
yea im with ya,, it's respect for all..
but with such generalization which coolmunda has put up,, it's just disrespectful to all..
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I haven't just come up with anything! i know the words in the poem may be a bit harsh but it's reality! I recieved it in my mail box so i thought i'd share it with everyone...and i really agree with what is being said in the poem.
I dont call ' a bit of material tied round ur head hijab' and body revealing tops and pants being islamic and fully covered.
Some people really do know how to misuse the whole concept of the hijab.
Everyone has their own views. and i respect them.......
I personally do not like this way of doing dawaah.
Yes girls should and must wear hijaab and dress modestly (according to Islam) and guys must lower their gaze and also dress modestly.
This poem is just not the right way to convince somebody to wear hijaab. I have seen many who do not wear hijaab, but this does not mean they are in any way bad or as someone said (disgusting) whores.
I think people need to take a course in dawah before telling people such things.
This is just my way of looking at it. The poem wasn't good!
I agree, Islamabad.
Its tone is disrespectful and pretends to be virtuous. Instead of judging, one should try to understand and teach.
This seems all about making the subject look bad.
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This poem doesnt help anyone, there are better ones on the net that talk about the true beauty of hijab, which are more inspirational.
Please correct me if i am wrong but slandering a woman's charachter is worthy of many lashes in Islam...disgusting to even use words like a whore..fittay moo and 70 lashes to you.
where is the hijab in your language?
a further 70 lashes and a few slaps too
AND some more slaps
and some more SLAPS....
ignoramus PRATS
and to think they think they are doing good
PRATS
Hitchki 
gothdom percieved by me as one of the phases some teenagers go through
ofcourse you can dress islamically whilst being a goth, i wouldve thought itd be easier consideringthe humongous baggy clothing, but then that depends on the individual
if theyre going out of their way dressing in black eye shadow, lipstick and piercings all over their face, a huge chunky steel chain tucked into their jeans, with a tiny scrap of white cloth attached to their head which is clearly a scarf, IMO its not right
theres obviously a conflict going on, you cant be a rebel, worship the devil AND worship god?? Thats just crazy bcos most goths DO worship Satan
wellies and summer dresses…imagine the mud 
Trust me on the goth domosity luv, the love of black isn't the love of 666. As DD clearly states
"black is beautiful"
...not always in my opinion, however I am no one to judge.