HIJAB question?

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@yanzala

the decision to wear a hijab is a very big responsibility. you know you will get more gunnah for deciding to wearing hijab and then quitting it for any reason.
i would suggest you to not to make a decision to wear a hijab or not for your husband’s family, you should do it ONLY for ALLAHTALA, and that is only when you will stick to your decision and respect it.
i wore hijab during my whole highschool life because of my parents, they made me. so what i used to do is to wear it to school and not to the desi parties. which was wrong. then few years ago i seriously started thinking about it, and decided to wore hijab only for ALLAHTALA, not for my parents, or anyone else. and when i did that the desire to show my hair and look pretty which i had before was gone and i was really happy with my hijab.
just couple of months ago i went to pakistan for my brother’s wedding, and my aunts got really mad at me and my sister for our decision to wear hijab at the wedding. their point was that the wedding is segregated (it means, guys from our family will be allowed in women’s section but not random ppl) but not everyone in my family is mehram to me, so i refused to show my hair even though i had to face a lot of opposition.
i don’t think i could have done that if i was wearing it for my family, or husband’s family (hypotheticaly speaking, i am not married)
if you want to start wearing hijab, read about it, what is the reason behind it in islam, what are the rewards from ALLAH, and other things, this is going to motivate you. until then, just be a modest muslim girl and don’t fall in to the hypocisy of wearing hijab to show other ppl how good you are, but in your heart you want to show off your beautiful hair. (i don’t mean you, i am just generally speaking)

I dont understand. shouldn’t they be HAPPY that u were actually wearing a Hijab and setting a good example for their kids? Y were they opposing it?