Re: Hijaab Help Required! UK guppies only!
I personally don't believe in hijab and these kinds of comments are what make hijab a joke in my opinion.
Sorry if I sound harsh, I don't mean to be, I'm just curious and trying to understand your thought process.
Indeed the point of hijaab is to try not to attract attraction to themselves. But i guess many girls who are trying to gain sawab by wearing the hijab are also at the same time a bit in-secure, and do feel the need to occasionally try and be a little attractive, or they have a desire to be fashionable, but becasue they belive in the reasons for hijab they cant and do not wish to take off the hijab but yet appear presentable. many reasons for girls wearing hijab fashionably, but it doesnt mean a girl should stop wearing hijab, at least she is doing sumthing.... but yes now-adays you do find girls wearing hijab, and wearing tight jeans with short tops, that is upsetting to see, as i have asked a guy once, and he said yes he remebers bing very attracted by a girl , physically because she had nice tight jeans on.....
i guess we all have desires, desires to look nice, feel good etc etc...desires will be with us till our death....its human nature....
anyway all our sins and sawab's will be added and weighed.... the more good we do the more whiter and cleaner our hearts will be, the more sins we commit the black our hearts will be....and that will determine how much punishment in the grave we will get....
may Allah make us stronger and guide us on the right path which will please Allah. Ameen.