Highly educated or not

[Shareefbacha95]

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just smart enough to roll rotiyan

[srkan2007]

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@naushi1

When considering marrige first time round or second time round what would you consider , if you were highly educated would u marry someone less educated then u ? Or someone who was educated but decided not to persue a career or someone who was educated but not as the same level as u
Does degree matter alot when getting married pls flow with some anwers question as been bugging me for a while

It’s a combination of a lot of things, but a good degree does matter and is always a plus point.

[Melodrama]

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@Shareefbacha95

just smart enough to roll rotiyan

I hope you find your baker soon.

[third_string]

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I think guys care less about a girls major/degree than the other way around.

[LP]

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@Melodrama

I hope you find your baker soon.

[Illuminate]

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@third_string

I think guys care less about a girls major/degree than the other way around.

I would disagree. When guys are just starting out they care less. But if they successfully established themselves, paid off all their loans, highly ambitious they don’t have time for a girl who has a crappy major working a $30K job. They’re looking for someone who has worked just as hard on themselves.

My friends older sister just got married and she’s a dentist. Her husband owns a dental clinic and is a dental surgeon. They both wanted someone who was highly educated. Neither guy or girl would settle with someone with just a bachelors.

[NaanGuard]

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@Illuminate

I would disagree. When guys are just starting out they care less. But if they successfully established themselves, paid off all their loans, highly ambitious they don’t have time for a girl who has a crappy major working a $30K job. They’re looking for someone who has worked just as hard on themselves.

My friends older sister just got married and she’s a dentist. Her husband owns a dental clinic and is a dental surgeon. They both wanted someone who was highly educated. Neither guy or girl would settle with someone with just a bachelors.

I agree, this is in my family too…they typically marry their similar education, A Rocket scientist married a lawyer, a Dr married another Dr…, Physical Therapist to another Physical Therapist…the only difference I see is when the guy is marrying a teacher…mainly because he wants his wife to be home and raise the children.

[third_string]

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@Illuminate

I would disagree. When guys are just starting out they care less. But if they successfully established themselves, paid off all their loans, highly ambitious they don’t have time for a girl who has a crappy major working a $30K job. They’re looking for someone who has worked just as hard on themselves.

My friends older sister just got married and she’s a dentist. Her husband owns a dental clinic and is a dental surgeon. They both wanted someone who was highly educated. Neither guy or girl would settle with someone with just a bachelors.

The data says otherwise and there are many cases of old rich farts getting trophy wives lol.

Female hypergamy is strongly supported by evolutionary science just like male polygamy.

[Illuminate]

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@third_string

The data says otherwise and there are many cases of old rich farts getting trophy wives lol.

Female hypergamy is strongly supported by evolutionary science just like male polygamy.

There’s tons of guys who want trophy wives or wives that are housewives that take care of kids and have no intention of ever having a career.

But it’s not all of them. And certainly middle class guys or upper middle class guys who are educated and ambitious would want someone with a similar mindset.

To each his own.

[Bobby1]

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@third_string

The data says otherwise and there are many cases of old rich farts getting trophy wives lol.

Female hypergamy is strongly supported by evolutionary science just like male polygamy.

There are almost equal number of women in workforce as men, for a young punk you are behind times. Many successful women now can get arm candy too. Here I will post this for you again.

ManServants Inc

[decentGuy]

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To highly educated guys themselves, I don’t think it matters. To parents of such guys, it matters a lot!

[Reha]

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@naushi1

When considering marrige first time round or second time round what would you consider , if you were highly educated would u marry someone less educated then u ? Or someone who was educated but decided not to persue a career or someone who was educated but not as the same level as u
Does degree matter alot when getting married pls flow with some anwers question as been bugging me for a while

As a woman, a man’s education, emotional intelligence and character matter.

By education, I don’t mean a degree. I have seen many advanced degree holding men sound like they just need someone to listen to them talk about themselves. I mean intellect, the ability to reason and come to reasonable conclusions…not melodramatic BS.

Emotional Intelligence. Empathy, sympathy, maturity of thought and mind, acceptance, compromise, etc.

Character. Living your life with total honesty and integrity. Principles.

[dewdropcollection]

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I think degree matters a lot so minimum bachelors if its a professional degree otherwise at least a masters degree.

[third_string]

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@dewdropcollection

I think degree matters a lot so minimum bachelors if its a professional degree otherwise at least a masters degree.

Lol how does that make somebody a better person or compatible with you?!?

[decentGuy]

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There is also an issue of proximity. Highly educated guys spend most of their time in academic environments such as academic/industry labs and conferences. It’s far more likely for them to get to know girls who also happen to be in those environments. Beyond that I don’t think education level matters for a guy. She could be a grad student, receptionist or a professor.

[third_string]

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I do notice that I vibe more with girls that are either education or nursing majors, so maybe a major does tell something about your personaltiy. I notice that the most attactive girls are arts and business majors but their personalities turned me off lol.

[dewdropcollection]

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@third_string

Lol how does that make somebody a better person or compatible with you?!?

The question I was answering to said nothing about compatibility or if a person is good or not. It asked if you would marry someone less educated and if degree matters or not.

[Bobby1]

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@Illuminate

I would disagree. When guys are just starting out they care less. But if they successfully established themselves, paid off all their loans, highly ambitious they don’t have time for a girl who has a crappy major working a $30K job. They’re looking for someone who has worked just as hard on themselves.

My friends older sister just got married and she’s a dentist. Her husband owns a dental clinic and is a dental surgeon. They both wanted someone who was highly educated. Neither guy or girl would settle with someone with just a bachelors.

My friend Larry is worth in 100s of millions, he one day told me that he bought an entire small town and he married a waitress, not everyone makes business out of love. We do know a couple like you mentioned and they are now divorced. You don’t sleep with a career, you sleep with a person. No wonder there is so much unhappiness around.

[Obama]

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@LP

Then you must pay attention to your grammar at least
*began is in the past tense.

No I think he meant…“Begum”

Originally Posted by Bakra24 http://gupshup.org/gs/images/buttons/viewpost-right.png No way. She must understand quantum physics for me to even Begum to get turned on.

[Obama]

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@naushi1

When considering marrige first time round or second time round what would you consider , if you were highly educated would u marry someone less educated then u ? Or someone who was educated but decided not to persue a career or someone who was educated but not as the same level as u
Does degree matter alot when getting married pls flow with some anwers question as been bugging me for a while

most answers I read here talk about intellect and also emotional Intelligence…my question to the ones looking for emotional intelligence is, at what phase of your negotiations for the prospective mate will you do the emotional intelligence Test? … I suggest it better be outdoors …so both parties can have a quick exit