Hiding your married status from colleagues at work

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Re: Hiding your married status from colleagues at work

@rouz

Then there is his actions, or the lack of them. I plan surprises for him, share everything about my life with him, I like telling him about the people I interact with on a daily basis or the shows I watch or books I read or places I visit etc. He, on the other hand, doesn’t like sharing anything about his life with me. If I ask him how his day was, he would say “it was good”. If I probe he would be like “haaan bus kuch nahi tum batao”. He NEVER talks about it. He could have gone to a wedding, or a friend’s birthday party, or dinners, or a picnic at a beach but all I get is “haaan bus kuch khaas nahi”. Half the time he doesn’t tell me what he’s doing.

umm you do realize he is a guy right? why do you want him to act like a saheli? not all, but a large number of guys, probably a majority are not very chatty about daily life.