hide it?????naaaahhh.

A friend of mine came to me asking “should I tell my partner about what is bugging me about him or should I keep quite and make him feel it?”
Why on earth hide your feelings? Don’t you think that it might just destroy everything? What if your partner didn’t get the point? What if everything just went down the river because you wanted to hide your feelings and make your partner feel it instead of knowing it?

My advice: talk about it, make your point clear. Because sooner or later you might find your-self sitting all alone having the “I WISH” regrets upon your head!

What do you think should be done? Make your partner feel your point, or know it?

Re: hide it?????naaaahhh.

if ur friend is a female, and is talking about a male partner, better tell him..

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yep she is female:)

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**Yaa sure tell uss everything the phase, or situation whtevr u r goign through
Make sure your partner feel your point, or know also oen should theorugh sharing more thn half of ur problems be solved there and thn ....

Hiding is obviously not the solution
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:hmmm: sometimes depends on the partner as well .. but it’s better you tell him /her everything straight :slight_smile:

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if his breathing annoys her then don't tell him. Everything else is ok.

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It's not what you say, it's how you say if. If you seem utterly annoyed and disgusted, then certainly the other person will be hurt/offended. But if you say it nicely and respectfully, it should be okay.

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There's a nice and subtle way of saying something. I think it's important to be honest and direct in a relationship. Keeping hidden thoughts and trying to manipulate someone is just going to destroy trust.

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What if you are extremely transparent and no matter how nice you try to be, you just cant, thats if at that moment you are annoyed?

I think closing the doors of communication is the worst thing you can do to a relationship.

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why do women assume men are smart enough to figure out what little mistake they may have committed... certainly by banging pots and pans wont help.....just say it... miscommunication breads mistrust leading to stupid fights...