Hey married women

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Stop :(

Than he'll have to put up with my horrible cooking. It's just only food that I can eat, it doesn't appeal to anybody else.

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i bet its actually really nice!

But on a practical note if you are a fussy eater it will be difficult for ure husband to cook what you want every day if he doesnt like the same thing.

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He eats what my mom or aunt cooked or he just cooks it himself.

Why don't i cook?

i'd make it clear to him from the start that i cant/wont learn to cook. he'll deal with it.

Jab raat ko admi thaka ghar ata hai to ussai aur kuch nahi Sirf food chaiye aur Ager woh bi restaurant sai khana hai to biwi kis chrriya ka naam ha ?:emmy:

man should know how to cook just in case (biwi naraz ho jaiwagaira wagaira:hehe:)but its not our job!!!:barbie:

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but I disagree with what you had said above :hoonh:

Allah subhaanahu ta’ala ne kaheen nahi mention kiya ke biwi sirf khaana pakaane ke liye hoti hai !

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aishaa thora bohot toh khaana pakaana seekh he loo.
kisi aur ke liye nahi toh apne liye he sahi.

but It would feel awesome jub hubby aapke haath ke pake huey khaaney ke tareef karaingey :mehr:

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well yes little princess but ya Allah nay zarror kaha hay kay aurat ghar ki zeenat hay yani ghar sanbhalty hay aur admi bahar kay kam dekhta hay tabhi admi sakhat jan hota hay aur aurat nazook hoty hay but according to as the periods going on both should know even hubby ko b ana chiye just in case if wifes not home that could be due to seveal reasons....:)

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well yes little princess but ya Allah nay zarror kaha hay kay aurat ghar ki zeenat hay yani ghar sanbhalty hay aur admi bahar kay kam dekhta hay tabhi admi sakhat jan hota hay aur aurat nazook hoty hay but according to as the periods going on both should know even hubby ko b ana chiye just in case if wifes not home that could be due to seveal reasons....
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I agree with what you said shk & I knew that before posting.
But to say that agar khana nahi pakaana aata then biwi ki koe zaroorat nahi is absolutely Wrong!

Allah subhaanahu ta’ala ne yeh bi nahi farmaya k biwi ki cooking sai us ka waqqar kam ho jai ga.that she will be any less of a women!!:rotato:

Nowaday these kinda statements are in

hey look at me!!! i cant cook!! i m soo free..heck i even make my man cook food for me .oh god i am so luckky to have such a nice husband :5:

btw i can cook and i like it velyyyy much (1 or twice in week)but still its not my job:barbie:

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It's not my job to cook either

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Allah subhaanahu ta'ala ne yeh bi nahi farmaya k biwi ki cooking sai us ka waqqar kam ho jai ga.that she will be any less of a women!!
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mainey bhi toh aisa nahi kaha.

But the statement(the one I had qouted above) you made above was wrong.
totally wrong. & that is what I'm trying to say.

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Nowaday these kinda statements are in

hey look at me!!! i cant cook!! i m soo free..heck i even make my man cook food for me .oh god i am so luckky to have such a nice husband

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maybe though I dont know anyone of that kind personally.

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btw i can cook and i like it velyyyy much (1 or twice in week)but still its not my job
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Its not a job !
Even I can cook. I cook everyday at home. & I dont mind it.
I WILL cook for my hubby & will love doing so.
so I can cook or you can cook is not really the point here.
The only thing I'm trying to say is what was said was absolutely WRONG.

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:smack2:Who says cooking is a JOB !!!

@aishaa
well thats your choice. :)

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he should know how to cook :P

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lol, at muzna..
I guess i'll learn for him...... In my case, i think i can cook, how good, don't ask lol..
but we'll learn together...

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i know cooking lil bit but i dont cook.....my inlaws, hubby no one say anything that i shud start cooking so maid cooks food, we eat, and sometimes i just tell her the method and she makes it that way....

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hmmmmmmm - what will he do if I don’t cook?

He would stack up on frozen foods and then re-heat and enjoy!

lol

in worst case scenario, he would REQUEST me VERY nicely and politely and lovingly - THAT IF he CAN bring in a SECOND WIFE? - :naraz:

It is a JOB alright!

For cooking you need to have a list of pre-qualified skills.

  1. You NEED TIME.
  2. You NEED PATIENTS.
  3. You need to know the right chemistry of mixing ingredients
  4. You need to know the right temperature
  5. You need to know the precise time or it will burn :naraz:
  6. You need to know ahead of time what will do in your “chemistry” class
  7. For that you need a list of things ahead of time, so you can be prepared for the “class”
  8. You must know how to make your food presentable
  9. You must MAKE SURE it is edible
  10. you must serve
  11. Once “class” is finished then you must also know how to clean up quick without looking exhausted
  12. You must also be ready to hear “another” “lecture” if all of you messed up with the chemistry a little while listening to some Bolly song :naraz:

It is a JOB alright.

THAT TOO UNPAID :naraz: