Ok so, the same guy i was talking about in my previous 3 threads.. So today, he has been trying to reach me . He called me twice, i didn’t answer, & then he kept on sending me long messages on whatsapp saying that, he loves me only,blah blah blah & many other fake promises! He even wrote me that he is willing to put hands on Quran & swear that there’s no other girl in his life other than me, etc
I didn’t respond to him in any ways but instead i’ve blocked him now :S. Then he has started sending me SMS messages.
What should i do? When i had made up my mind to move on, then why did he come back to make things even more difficult for me?
Normally, I would say give it a shot and see but looking at his behavior (not replying for weeks, lying about selling blackberries and other shady stuff) I will suggest you don’t reply because he is NOT trustworthy and will flake if you stick with him. Be strong and don’t reply, it’ll be a slap in the face for all the crap he’s done to you.
Please go back and re-read all the advice given to you in the past few threads about the same guy. Nothing has changed. He has already gotten you to behave like a total idiot many times. He’s just seeing if he can do it one for time.
And for you own good…stop wondering “WHY” he’s doing stuff. You will never find a good answer to “WHY” and frankly, it really doesn’t matter. I’ve said this on all of your previous threads…Have some self-respect and move on.
If you are serious about wanting to get rid of him, tell him once, and then ignore him. Cruel, but he will get the hint. But i have a feeling you are not quite done with him, because it’s easy dropping someone after they’ve done wrong to you.
So what? Are you really that incapable of taking control of your own life? Let him call as many times as he wants to. Let him send as many messages as he wants to.
Do not answer his phone calls. Delete his voicemails without listening to them. Do not respond to his message. Actually, don’t even bother reading his entire messages. Just delete them.
You’ve asked us enough times what to do with this guy. You’ve been give the same exact advice over and over again. Starting yet another thread isn’t going to change the situation.