He's Not Fasting

i bumped into one of my friends at school and i didnt realize he was chewing gum until my sister pointed it out…so i asked him y he wasnt fasting. and his excuse was…his mom’s in pakistan so they have no one to cook at home :confused: i was very shocked..i was late for my exam so i said arrite ill ttyl bout this n left.

he was born in london…grew up in las vegas. i know he goes partying and clubbing every so often…i know he doesnt pray at all. i know he’s not gonna want to listen to nething i have to say. only recently did he learn urdu. its upsetting me a lot. i havnt talked to him yet but i dont want to make it seem like i’m lecturing him. i’m not perfect but i want him to at least try. he’s surviving w.out his moms cooking isnt he? to phir y cant he fast?

what can i do to make him listen and realize how important it is to fast and pray?

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Some ppl never iwll realize… tell him wat u need to tell him but dont expect him to change… sad upbringing :nook:

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yea i'm not expecting him to change..but i want him to listen at least...i dont even know if he'll listen to me

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dont expect him to change all of sudden..do it slowly ang very gradually....trust me it will work..also if you can give him some ramadan soghats...gifts always softnes hearts.

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ramadan soghats? kya matlab

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Tell the moron that if his mommy isn't home to cook for him, then that's all the more reason for him to be fasting, as he won't have to worry about lunch and snacks throughout the day.

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yaar ramzan Specials..like samosa…wagarah wagarah..

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kid- baat to sahi hai. lekin us ullu ko nahin samajh aayegi

baadshah...oooo ok...i get it

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world food mai acchay samosay mailtay hain..yea almarkaz sae laey loo

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ok how did u know i was in tx?

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agar ous ullu ko samaj nahi ayeegi then there is no point in you wasting your time. Your job is to tell it how it is, agay sai vo jo marzee kurrai.

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kaal tu bataya tha tum nae…signature parh loo!!

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ohhh HAHA achaaa its uuuu :smack:

i didnt understand the signature…at first

kid- thanks

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Set up an example.
If u guys have MSA iftaars in ur school, invite him...be around him and tell him about this month!

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yaar we dont have enuf muslims at our school to have an MSA. kaash hota. usko kuch samajh to aati

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hmm.....hmmmm.......take him to the mosque...

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jummah parhne jaata hai woh yaar. but thats bout it

Re: He’s Not Fasting

Leave the guy alone :o

:bravo:

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wahhhh! i loveeee ur advice! :rolleyes:

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^Yes u cant force them. It will only make him feel annoyed.

The best way is to become a good example urself but dont force them, respect whatever they do and if God wills, he will notice & inbspire.

Its a human nmature we dont want to listen.

:bravo: