i bumped into one of my friends at school and i didnt realize he was chewing gum until my sister pointed it out…so i asked him y he wasnt fasting. and his excuse was…his mom’s in pakistan so they have no one to cook at home i was very shocked..i was late for my exam so i said arrite ill ttyl bout this n left.
he was born in london…grew up in las vegas. i know he goes partying and clubbing every so often…i know he doesnt pray at all. i know he’s not gonna want to listen to nething i have to say. only recently did he learn urdu. its upsetting me a lot. i havnt talked to him yet but i dont want to make it seem like i’m lecturing him. i’m not perfect but i want him to at least try. he’s surviving w.out his moms cooking isnt he? to phir y cant he fast?
what can i do to make him listen and realize how important it is to fast and pray?
dont expect him to change all of sudden..do it slowly ang very gradually....trust me it will work..also if you can give him some ramadan soghats...gifts always softnes hearts.
Tell the moron that if his mommy isn't home to cook for him, then that's all the more reason for him to be fasting, as he won't have to worry about lunch and snacks throughout the day.